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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What the hell is a "secret garbage person"?  You sound like someone who feels that there is an innate difference between honorable victims and people who deserve to be scorned and cut out of your life.  God help you if you ever make a mistake.[/quote]

Yep, I can only think of one secret garbage person in this scenario and it's not the cousin. [/quote]

IDK anyone who would knowingly bring a racist, falling down drunk to a mixed race family event is worse than garbage in my book. Her being abused doesn't excuse that. What she lets him do to her is her choice. If she's going to choose to give him the opportunity to do stuff to her family, she will, rightly be judged.  Especially since she wanted him to come to the next event!

Not much different than a substance abuser or someone mentally ill. Her addiction/disorder may explain her behavior but it doesn't excuse it. There are consequences for choices.[/quote]

Agreed. Feeling uneasy about her is justified. [/quote]

Wow  :shock:

You realize this kind of attitude is one thing that keeps women in abused relationships from seeking help, right? They fear their family and friends will judge them because they made the mistake of winding up with an abusive partner, so they feel like they have no one to turn to for help. [/quote]

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