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Reply to "The weight of our lives tilts towards my husband "
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[quote=Anonymous]your issue is that you have not expressed your desires or set up boundaries so you cannot prosecute DH for all this, since you've been, on the surface, willing to go along with it all. This is where you start: a conversation. He doesn't need to stop his hobby or feel badly about it. But you need to start asserting yourself and your desires. First, you agree about how much money is reasonable. How much is spent on the hobby, etc. Put a limit and say that there are things you would like to do to, like skiing. Secondly, stop going with him every weekend. If he wants to go and its in the agreed upon budget, he can go. You figure out something else to do. Third, figure out some other things to do as a couple. Hiking, exploring, whatever. You need to come to the table with some alternative activities. [/quote]
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