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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would marry him. Sex is important but if everything else is there he sounds great.you are 46 I don't know that if you let him go you will find something better. Can you try to teach him? Have you talked about it?[/quote]

Also - your sex drive will decline with menopause in the next 10 years, right? Or so I've been told. It would be different if you were 26, or even 36. All that being said, if sex is a priority for you then you'll be unsatisfied without that connection with your partner. It's up to you whether or not you can live with that.[/quote]

I'm in my 60's and I still have a strong sex drive. It helps in that my DH still has a strong drive. It's true that many women do lose their drive but for many it's not menopause, it's that the sexual attraction in their marriage has waned. If we don't have sex at least once a week I complain! [/quote]

I really think that for women, sex drive is very "use it or lose it," especially as you age.[/quote]

Naw it's not. Women that are smart know what's really important in the long run. Hmm the good looking guy with little money or the chubby guy who loves you and wants you both to have a great life. Hmmm which shall I choose, lol. The smart woman will choose the better choice. Now a man will almost always choose the bimbo over the average looking woman unless he's smart and has a good foundation.  Maryann or Ginger? Obvious to some, not to others.[/quote]

If it's a choice between growing old in poverty or having a good sex life, I guess it makes sense to go with the guy with money. Usually the choice isn't quite that stark.[/quote]

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