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[quote=Anonymous]I have felt like you op.

I think in your case, you can't lay blame on him.

But I see where you are with your confusion--how do you make it 'even' or balanced when your hobby isn't like his? And how do you find a hobby, when you don't really WANT a specific thing? I have asked myself these two questions.

In my case, dh has a specific couple of things, and he's always reminding me that they're inexpensive/not too time consuming, so I should be happy he doesn't have some expensive interest. (I am grateful for that :))

For me, my interests ARE more expensive. We have little budget for it, so little that it's just pointless getting too involved in my hobby. So I don't. Again, we could make it all even, but ... it just wouldn't get me very far in achieving my goals there. So I have to figure this out...

Just wanted to be on your side op.

Like I said at the top though, none of your feelings can be blamed on your husband. You just need to make a plan. Maybe it is trading weekends, so at least his doesn't take over what room you have to figure it all out. His weekend then yours. Back and forth. [/quote]

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