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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH has had a goatee as long as I've known him. I have never liked facial hair but looked past it as looks aren't everything, of course. He has repeatedly told me over the years that "it's not a fad, this is how I look." This is in response to when the subject of shaving ever comes up. Now it's all white (he's in his early 40s) and pretty much makes him look 10 years older. I look younger than I am. So basically he doesn't look like my spouse, but more like my dad (I've actually been told this). Finally was able to convince him to shave it last week while we were out of town for a week - this way he could "try it out and not let anyone he knows see it." For three days he let the stubble grow and the fourth day he started the goatee again. I don't get it. Now he knows I hate it at this point but he still couldn't care less what I think. I know, it's his face, but come on now, we ladies are always trying our best to look good - do men really not care? [/quote]

I care. I hope she likes what I like. I'm willing to compromise on certain things. At the same time, I hope she can respect what I like, particularly when it comes to my personal appearance. If you hated it, why did you start dating him. If I saw a woman smoking a cigarette, I wouldn't approach her, no matter how attractive I found her. It's simply a turnoff for me. I'm not going to go out with her, propose marriage and then 5 years in bitch because she's still smoking.[/quote]

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