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[quote=Anonymous]As someone who has the difficult parents (actually, just one, my dad is awesome), let your husband handle his mother how he sees fit, and leave it alone. You'll likely only end up driving a wedge between you and your husband on this, and you'll be in the wrong. I made it clear to my husband from day one that how I handle my mother is up to me because it doesn't affect him (I don't let her come over and yell at him, for example). He wasn't there my whole life, and has no idea of all the complications involved in our relationship, so he respects whatever I choose to say or do because, like I said, it doesn't affect him. Let your husband do and say what he wants and acknowledge that there's a lot you don't know about their relationship. Having a difficult parent is really hard because even when you might hate them, they're your parent. Don't make it worse for him.[/quote]
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