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[quote=Anonymous]Of course the expectation can change. This is 2017 and presumably you live in America. Have a conversation with him, he needs to see and understand he is married now and you cannot enable people to be responsible adults. If he's mature, he will listen, talk and agree to some degree and you can both work together on the delivery message to the parents. If he's immature, he will get defensive and shut down the conversation. He may start hiding such behavior or lying about it (my husband lies about who paid for the grocery bill, for crying out loud!). But he will also suffer cognitive dissonance, b/c deep down he knows there is a real problem and he's ushering it along, not fixing it. [/quote]
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