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[quote=Anonymous]I've completely cut off my mom and maybe talk to my dad an hour a year.  I'm completely fine with it except I hate that my ILs judge me. They constantly want me to reconnect with my parents.  They have good intentions-they are religious.They tell me things like think about all of the things you've done in life that you regret. I was really upset that the day of my daughter's graduation, they asked me earlier in the day if I was inviting my dad and I said no and they said I should reconsider. My dad has a history of making unwanted advances on people and it's not something that I wanted to deal with or worry about that day.  My ILs think that people that dislike my dad have "overreacted" and spread false rumors. If I had only heard this from one source...I think they may have had a point. I have heard it from at least 3 sources. I told them they could either accept my decision or hold a grudge but that I wasn't budging. It was such a relief not to have him there. I just hate that people I love can cause me pain by trying to encourage the reconnection.
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