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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Interested to know what kind of relationship you have with your parents now and the relationship you have with your own kids.

I was abused by my mother from when I was about 7 until my early 30s. Obviously it was much worse when I was a child because I had no escape. When it happened as an adult it was always on visits/on the phone and subtle.

Cut her off 3 years ago and never looked back.

Another sibling also doesn't talk to her for related but different reasons.
Other sibling still close with her even though she fully admits she felt the abuse too.

My kids are young but I am constantly watching what I say because I constantly fear that some of my mother is innately inside me and Im terrified to hurt my kids like that. And yes, I'm in therapy.

I wish more people could realize how badly words and actions can hurt.[/quote]

Do you help your in-laws when you go visit them?

Or are you too tired from your trip,  too busy with the kids, and don't want to get in the way?[/quote]

I'm confused about your question? I never mentioned my in laws at all? I'm not sure where your question is coming from?[/quote]

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