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Well, I'm not sure if OP should divorce based on the information she provided here. But I am a divorced person and I want to say that no step children hate me. My beau has no ex from hell. I have no money problems. My children are thriving. My life is not perfect. No one's life is perfect. But I live a wonderful life now, putting myself and my children first now. 
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If you divorced, then by definition you did not put your kids first, you put YOURSELF first, you narcissistic creep.

Unless, of course, your ex was actually beating them, which I doubt.

And in any case, the OP does not say her husband is doing anything abusive, so divorce would not be "putting the kids first".[/quote]

I don't get it.  Everyone who has kids and gets a divorce is a narcissistic creep?  It seems that the hostility towards a decision that lots of couples make seems a over-the-top on this thread.  My guess is it's primarily coming from the same poster since I can't imagine so many people are so unhinged.  I know quite a few adults whose parents divorced when they were children and who weren't traumatized or found it to be a huge relief.  I can think of quite a few other adult friends who are dealing with issues surrounding their relationships whose parents remained married.  I agree that divorce is a major life event in most cases and can be traumatizing, but I would never equate it with the death of a child like another poster did.  Sounds like that poster has no idea what it's like to lose a child and has an axe to grind on his/her own unresolved issues over divorce.[/quote]

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