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[quote=Anonymous]All I can say is that I'm going through the same thing and having the same thoughts. I can't seem to get past thinking it's selfish to leave. On the other hand, I also know that I will never be the person to make my DH happy. I can't help but think that I'm giving him the opportunity for a better life too. My biggest concern though, is my kids. We are decent about hiding our fights from them, but we don't communicate like a couple that loves each other, we don't show natural (unstrained) affection, and we don't do anything with just each other. We're not modeling the relationship I wish that my kids have one day. 20 years from now, if one of my kids comes to me and says he/she is unhappy in his/her marriage but is sticking it out for the kids, I would hate myself. It's not the advice I would give. [/quote]
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