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[quote=Anonymous]If things are great now, let it go.  The fact that he had trouble at the very beginning of your relationship with him letting go of a prior relationship just tells me that he is capable to deep attachments and had not finished working through old issues when he met you.  That does not mean things with you were not real or great, just that he was not fully open to it at the time.  In fact, maybe the reason he felt a need to give the old girlfriend another shot was that he sensed you were special and that things could get seriously with you quickly.  If he had thought in the past that the ex might be the one for him, I can see how confusion over his budding feelings for you might make him want to go back and give the ex another shot.  Sometimes a fleeting desire to win someone back is part of the process of letting go once and for all.

If anything, be grateful that he went back and got himself whatever closure he needed back then.  It sounds like he is fully committed to you now and has been for most of your relationship.[/quote]

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