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[quote=Anonymous]Oh Op, how awful all of it is, including your updates. I feel really badly for your mom. She's not that old, and it sounds like she is lonely and vulnerable. Yes, I think the guy was slowly isolating her. Be glad that his true colors came out before they were even more intwined. But now I think you need to talk to your mom about ways she can be stronger on her own. It's good she has a network of female friends, and also good she has a counselor. It doesn't mean she won't be lonely, though, or sad about being alone again. I'd try to get her down to visit, encourage her to fill her schedule with hobbies and things she enjoys, and talk to her about being cautious and demanding of her partners. Maybe you could frame it as, how would you feel if I settle on someone who was not worthy of me? You are a valuable, important person and you deserve someone who is WORTHY of you. [/quote]
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