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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I find the whole excusing it because she's a kid and didn't know better to be problematic. I mean, it's a reflection of your failure as a parent if your child does not understand why it's completely, utterly unacceptable to use to the N-word. Period end of story. I can just see the "oh, no, she didn't mean...rap songs..." excuses. But no. If you haven't taught your children about the awful treatment of black people in this country for centuries -- as recently as grandma and grandpa were alive -- then you are willfully ignoring it because to admit it is to recognize it. It's easier to ignore it because you're not black or you don't have black family or children or what have you. It must be nice to get to side step the whole race discussion white folks. I wish I didn't have to drill into my sons heads that their actions will be viewed as lethally dangerous so they can't cut up and act foolish or do dumb stuff like get drunk at someone's house party like their white friends. Because they'll be killed. And then blamed for their murder. Because hoodlum.[/quote] And yet she's allowed to buy music from rap artists who use the word with abandon, and sing and dance to their songs? Got it. [/quote]
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