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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd file for divorce and tell him why.

Detach from him.

If he needs help, he will have to choose to get it.

Protect yourself and your kids. I know you love him and want to help him...it's probably not possible.

It's possible for him to get help, but you won't be able to force it on him.

I am sorry. [/quote]

Thanks for your condolences! So appreciated.  Your advice is sound and pretty much what I need to do. 
 He had his hearing today (I called), the trial is continued until 8/29 for some reason.  I think he's called a therapist and is going to offer up some sad sob story of being unemployed and distraught, never being in trouble with the law before, etc.  He will do this until the problem is over and then he'll resume his life as usual behavior (whatever that means today).  He did this when he was threatened to be fired.  I am working toward becoming more financially independent so that I can support myself.  It's gonna take a little while for this to happen.  I was hoping to separate this summer. Also can barely stand being near him.  I'm not sleeping at night and I'm furious about his outright lies to me and our children.

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