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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The way this discussion has twisted and turned is why self-segregation occurs. Why can't everyone not use extremely offensive words, especially ones that have been used against racial groups, women, gays? And I can hear the response - "my son can say whatever he wants wherevere he wants and you can just keep your lily-white boy away" - but what does that get us as an overall society? Economic and educational parity? Political understanding? Empathy? SMH - it all seems hopeless sometimes.[/quote] Then what is hopeless is your lack of understanding nuanced, complicated issues and common sense. Thanks Tho![/quote] Too flip and a very lame response. If you've got a point to make besides and insult, make it. Otherwise, this sort of response serves no purpose whatsoever. NP here, btw. I'm following this discussion but see very few helpful or instructive responses here. While I fall into the "you're just not allowed to say it" camp and that's what I tell my DD (who is too young to fully grasp all of the reasons why) simply dismissing the opposite views or people who aren't as "nuanced" as you purport to be is a really ineffective tool. [/quote]
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