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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Guarantee you their bedroom is dead. All that choreplay niceguy stuff makes her vajayjay as dry as the Sahara.[/quote]

I expect you're right. The qualities that make a nice, stable long term partner are the opposite of the qualities that create the tension and excitement necessary to spark sexual desire. I'll bet OP's husband turns her on more than her friend is turned on by her husband. [/quote]

I think there's some truth to this.  Neil DeGrasse Tyson was on a podcast recently and talked about a poll where women were asked if they could have an extra husband, but for only one thing what would it be.  70% or more answered for sex.

So that shows that they would like a nice guy to settle down and have all the dad stuff, that's not who they want to sleep with.

This can also be seen in Connor Murphy's videos where he and another guy went and polled women about their favorite body type for a guy.  The women overwhelmingly picked the "dad bod".  When asked why they said he's cuddly, he looked like relationship material and he looked like a nice guy.

When asked who they would rather sleep with of have a one night stand every single one wanted the muscle fit guy...every one.

So it proves women are hypergamous by nature.  They want a secure nest to raise kids and feel secure but when it comes to fun they don't want the same guy, they want the muscular fit asshole.

So does that mean don't help out with kids?  Naw, that just makes you a douchebag.  Be a father and do the right thing and help with the kids and the house as it's your job as a man to help captain the ship.  What it does mean is as a guy you have to realize that your woman isn't yours, it's just your turn.  Given a solid opportunity they'll trade up at a moments notice.  So the only thing you can do is be the best man you can be, be in shape, be fit, be a good dad and remain as sexually marketable as possible.  When she decides to branch swing don't be surprised, it's in her nature.  But being a good catch takes maintenance and it's better to be left and be a desirable man than having to start from scratch [/quote]

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