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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So instead of being jealous, what conversation can you have with your husband to divide the child rearing tasks more? I'd start with asking him whether he thinks it's your job to do those things. Because if he honestly doesn't think he's supposed to be doing them, no begging or cajoling will help. You have to have that conversation first. It's a hard one to have because you might end up hearing something that will be vastly different from what you believe. [/quote] Yes, this was my experience, sadly. But it stopped the begging and nagging, and got us to talk openly. I told him that a lot of what I had been doing around the house was going to be either outsourced or not done, since he feels that I should do 90% of everything kid and house related, even though we both work full time and bring in about the same amount of money. Oh, and yeah, our sex life is pretty bad, but oh well, his choice.[/quote]
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