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[quote=Anonymous]Do you know how much debt he has in credit card debt, student loans, car payments, etc.?

Do you know if he went to the college he claims he attended and if he actually was granted the degree he says he has?

Is his job actually as he describes it to you, or is it possibly less responsible or lower-paid than he has said it is?

Has he ever filed a tax return with false information on it? Does he realize that doing so is breaking the law, or would he say it was just fudging some numbers and "everybody does it...."?

All those things would occur to me after a serious financial lie like the one he told. Love does not necessarily conquer all, OP. Marriage means absolute trust and financial transparency. It also means you could end up responsible for his debts in some cases. I would postpone the wedding and start couples therapy and also get a financial planner to sort out his REAL finances in every aspect. But even then I likely would still say, a marriage might be a bad idea, unless you are up for first making him come clean to a financial adviser AND being the spouse in charge of all finances, purchases and taxes forever.
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