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[quote=Anonymous]I couldn't get past that you are paying his bills. I have four adult kids and one in high school. They paid towards their own car insurance even as teens. They moved out in college and never moved back in. They are adults. Your mistake is giving your child money and then using that to control him. You cannot control whom your adult children choose to date and marry. Your son will choose his wife over you, as he should. You will lose your son and likely have no relationship with your grandchildren. If that's what you want, then continue. The only way to fix this is to trust your son to find his own path. Stop giving him money. Start getting to know his girlfriend. Let go of your need to control and replace it with affirmations of trust in your child. [/quote]
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