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[quote=Anonymous]You sound very controlling.

If you like your SIL why wouldn't you want to include her friend who wants to help in hosting the party? I don't get why no decorations or food other than those ordered by you are allowed to enter your home.

Now I am wondering if you are also overstating your role in SIL's life. She may actually really enjoy her friends and you aren't eh be all and end all. She may actually be quite annoyed that you just took over the party and are wanting to kick her friend out of it but she can't tell you how she feels because your ego and your belief that you are the only reasons she is who she is.

You really need to step back and get out of this sense of inflated self that you have. Others also want to celebrate the engagement and be a part of a party. Others have good ideas and can contribute. You aren't the boss of SIL or her friend. Hosting means just that - offering your home as a space - it doesn't mean are the only person who is allowed to speak or have an opinion or want to be a part of planning the party.[/quote]

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