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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]*Update*
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Things kinda got weird...

Long story short I complimented him on a pic I just noticed he'd posted on social media via text. Yeah I was flirty--your muscles...sexy ect

You again goes into how sexy I was when he saw me. I asked when he'd take me on a date. Then we end up having the hottest phone sex ever. Afterwards he reminds me "I told you I'm seeing someone". AFTER we'd takes about the hot sex we're going to have! I didn't think he'd engage in such talk if he was involved! I felt like a dope and quickly ended the call.

Now I'm stuck with NO not until he's free because I want him to take me seriously. Then again he's willing to cheat on her so he's a cheat and I don't want that! Then again why not have the hot sex???? Help

It's been a mind freak[/quote]

Sweets, there's your answer. It's a no.  You've talked yourself into believing there is something going on that isn't. He sounds like a total creep. [/quote]

Thanks! And yeah. It's a no to a relationship. But the mind freak comes in when I now ask myself if I just want to scratch that itch. After all that was the question in the very first post. The phone sex WAS hot.
Of course there's that goody goody side of me that doesn't want to be so messy and sleep with a "taken" man. I don't usually do things like that to other women. But if it's meaningless...????

It's also weird and disappointing that my perfect wonderful friend who was a virgin when he married turned into such a douche.

Of course he could've been thinking the same about me. (She knows I have a girlfriend so why the flirting and asking me on a date?) while in my mind he wasn't sure and wouldn't engage inappropriately if he was.[/quote]

He's not interested in you, he wants side action at best. Likely won't put effort into your enjoyment unless he gets off on control. Sex is so much easier to find than this dumb and frankly immature obsession. [/quote]

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