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[quote=Anonymous]It's hard to know what's going on here because you describe feeling a push-pull dynamic.  We only have this latest scenario, and I think you realize now what your part was in it.  It's reasonable for him to go away for a number of days, it's reasonable for him not to be in a great mood when he's sick.

Are you making a big deal out of that because you're generally insecure and needy?  Or because there are bigger push-pull dynamics and one instance of a disconnect get you flared up?

I applaud you for not introducing your child yet and making other prudent decisions.  I was divorced and dating with kids, so I understand. You won't regret taking that part slowly.

I question how slowly you've taken other things if you are this worked up now.  You seem to have a lot of expectations because you seem disappointed and upset now.  Do you feel that your needs are not being met on a regular basis?  That's a bad sign.

Have you expressed to him that the super early "I love you" and other things are moving really fast for your preference? How does he respond to that?[/quote]

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