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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, the deception is pretty awful.  Not being ready is fine, but the constant lying and letting him get his hopes up for something he wants is not.

Reverse the situation.  What if your DH got a vasectomy before you are ready but didn't tell you and you spent 6 months to a year trying to have a baby?  Wouldn't you be livid about the lie?[/quote]

100% this.

You're in trouble if you guys can't be honest with each other. [/quote]

Wait - everyone saying that she's lying to her DH - she isn't lying.  She said in her OP that she's told him several times but he won't listen.  Here is her OP

[quote]But, I haven't. I'm still taking it. He wants to have a baby now. I'm just not ready. [b]I've told him this many times. It's like he doesn't even hear me[/b]. I know I want kids but not now. Hoping I can buy some time, 6 months - 1 year would be good. Plus we really can't afford it right now.

Am I awful? [/quote]

For everyone jumping on you about lying and not being honest, remember that you've been telling him MANY TIMES and HE'S the one not listening.  There's not much more you can do if he won't get it through his brain what you're telling him.[/quote]

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