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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hello
I would like more information on how to love a Man who is a love avoidant . When I gave him the no contact at all . Two months later he called me. He said he missed me and didn't want to lose me that he loved me and that I was the one for him. and asked me to take him back. And I did because I still love him. A weak and a half later, when I thought we were moving forward he starting saying things like I wish you weren't so Christian and your not as adventurous as I thought you were. That we needed to be on the same page! I kindly said good and told him I loved him and so did he. I waited two days without contacting him giving space also because I was confused by his sudden negativity! He texted me . Is your phone working? I answered yes He responded okay!!!! And that was that . I didn't hear from for a few days. So I texted him saying I was giving myself a little space as I didn't want to continue getting close to someone who was confused as to what they wanted. I reassured him that I loved him and wanted to make it work. It's been a month and a half and he hasn't contacted me . Any advice.
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In all seriousness, move on. Consider the end of this relationship, if one can call it that, a gift, because you don't need a man who will bail out on you after you've made a lifetime committment and have little children to care for.  Get therapy for yourself to learn why you're willing to twist yourself into a pretzel in order to please him, but willing settle for the crumbs he doles out to you only when he feels like it   He doesn't need you to save him -- you need to save yourself.[/quote]

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