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Reply to "Fiancee's (social media) friends say I'm "ugly""
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. These are acquaintance types from childhood and periphery people she doesn't directly know. [b]She essentially said "it happens" and that she just ignores stuff like this. She said "they say that about everybody." Her explanation of their behavior makes it sound like a mean girls scenario. [/b]Maybe there is a bit of jealousy going on about her life situation in comparison or something along those lines. I don't really care to figure out those dynamics. I was more curious/concerned about how that sort of feedback might impact her. maybe I should just own it... compensate by making more money? [/quote] :shock: I can't say whether this feedback is impacting her because I still can't figure out why she would keep these posts up or not change her settings so rude friends don't see the pictures she posts etc. What will she do when they say her baby is ugly? Keep that post up because "they say that to everyone"? It's not just her reaction, it's the fact that people you know see those comments up there and the person it's about can read it. Here is my thing, if they insult her, and she can care less, that's fine. But don't put other people's business out there t be crapped on. I dropped someone from Facebook and created a special co-worker group that can't see anyone else because of stuff like that.[/quote]
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