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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]my children aren't allowed to have boyfriends/girlfriends at 11.[/b] They aren't allowed to text boys or girls they "like" in a one on one chat . This is what I said to my 5th grader and 8th grader about this: "I know you like this boy/girl, keep on liking him/her but that person is not a boy/girlfriend. You may not text with them one on one. A group chat is fine" I monitor all texts. They know that. If I were you I'd take the texting aspect of the device away without shaming her. She's proven she doesn't have the emotional maturity to use it. This is why social media is such a problem as well, so go ahead and set a rule for when she'll get Instagram and Snapchat. Make it 13 or 8th grade or whichever comes last. The pressure is about to come for her to have these apps if it hasn't already. [/quote] This rule is impossible for you to enforce. As well as a rule that encourages your children to go behind your back.[/quote] Speak for yourself.[/quote]
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