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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Good grief.  No.  You don't sacrifice your happiness to please them.

Start with family therapy.[/quote]

Exactly.  Ask the therapist to help you talk about it, but they don't get to decide on the marriage.

A couple thoughts: Ask your sons to try to respect your fiance, even if they don't like him or want you to get married.  Ask the oldest one how he wants girlfriends he brings home to be treated, and ask him if he thinks you get a say in who he dates.  Remind them both that you love them and will support them no matter what happens--see if you can figure out what scares them so much about the change.[/quote]

Maybe they will ask if you would like having your home disrupted every two years and being forced to live with someone when they don't want to.

They probably are happy that life has finally settled down into a "new normal" and here comes their mom wanting to change everything up again.  But hey, there is nothing more important than adult romantic relationships, right?[/quote]

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