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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To OP, it sounds like it wasn't just the fact that she is a parent, it's that her parenting arrangements with her ex are unreliable. If it works for them, great; that's a LOT to ask someone else to go along for the ride for. When I was dating after divorce (I had two small kids), even as a parent, it would have taken an extraordinary person for me to tolerate a parenting set up like that. I have my kids most of the time but have a reliable schedule with my ex. That's really important to me, the kids, and for everyone. [/quote] It is a lot to ask. In the beginning, I didn't know that was their arrangement. I knew she had her child more than he did, but I still thought they had set days.[/quote] OP, you really don't sound too passionate about her in the first place. To call a woman nice is like saying a man has a good personality. In < three months of dating you should know enough about someone to figure out if there is at least an intermediate term fit. And the older you get, the more you are going to find women with kids when you want to date. [/quote]
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