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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You sound unstable and possibly are a danger to your children.

If I were your XH, I'd seek full custody, arguing you might do something crazy. [/quote]

Exactly what I was thinking. I guess it's his fault that she couldn't keep him happy during the marriage. Typical DCUM logic[/quote]

What the hell is wrong with you?  Are you bored? Drunk?  Jesus.

OP, please ignore these sad, sad people.

I posted earlier but want to reiterate:  It WILL get better.  I swear.

In the meantime, something that helped me resist the very understandable urge to lash out to your ex-husband: Have a plan - a go-to thing that you do almost reflexively instead.

I had a Plan A and a Plan B.  Plan A was for when I was furious but not crying: I took a long walk, usually with a podcast in my ear.  Plan B was for when I was sobbing mess: I got busy on a project in the house that I'd mapped out earlier - something mindless and physical, cleaned out the closets, bulk cooked, etc.  I kept a list so that I didn't have to think too much; I could just get to it.

Hang in there.[/quote]

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