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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I expected and invited the criticism.  I needed the wake up call.  For some people, monogamy is easy.  For other people (like me), it can be a real struggle at times.  It certainly doesn't mean that monogamy is not worth it.  I worked hard to build my family and want to keep it intact, even though it's so hard sometimes and I want an escape.  Thank you all for the responses, as I think they will keep me on the straight and narrow track.  All feelings and fantasies aside, I think the end game is just not to get physical with him.  [b]My husband would understand feelings for someone else,[/b] but not crossing the line into a physical reality.[/quote]

Actually, no. And especially if you tell him you've been obsessed with this guy for 18 months, and actively talked about getting physical.

My wife has obsessed over another man for over a year. Far as I know it hasn't gotten physical. I would have divorced her already, if not for the kids, for withdrawing her energy and attention from our relationship. Divorce is likely to happen anyway, because she is unwilling to put aside her obsession.[/quote]

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