Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "Trying to prevent having an affair with my co-worker"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote]It's going to blow up her career to have an affair with her boss. Boss-subordinate affairs rarely end well, professionally, for subordinate women. She can avoid that professional pain, as well as all the personal pain of blowing up her family, by getting a new job. Job changes happen all the time. Getting a new job isn't going to blow up her career. More likely to be a spur to new growth because she will channel all the energy now being spent on obsessing about her boss into her actual day job. [/quote] To be fair, maybe the soundness of this advice depends on what OP does. I'm, 45 and I've been at the same boutique law firm for 10 years. I can't just leave easily and walk into a new job that would put me at the same level, making the same amount of money. I would have to buckle down, focus on work, and get over the situation, because my career is very important to me (as is my family). [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
