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[quote=Anonymous]Reading so many of these posts is sad as too many have such a limited view on what is appropriate/healthy/resptful. This man sounds lovely and emotionally secure. His life with his wife produced his three children and he celebrates her memory and he must still mourn the loss of what he assumed was his forever world. OP is a newish addition to his world and as she has no stated complaints on how he treats her except his posts on FB - she has little grasp of what this man is doing. He is now the ONLY parent to his children who in their own way are still grappling with the loss of their mother. What a wonderful man who is secure enough to pursue what he assumes is a healthy new attachment to a new woman while still honoring the fullness of his life. If his youngest is 19, he lost his mother at 15 - and one could guess that there was a year or more of hope then despair as she succumbed to whatever lead to her death. This man's 3 sons have been through a lot - as have the others in his circle. I don't think you have enough strength of character to handle a person like this. I have a friend who lost his wife at 39 just after she had their 4th child. I see his posts about her on Facebook - and now 7 years later they show up along side those of his new wife. They all look happy[/quote]

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