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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] 
Husbands- what is it about having a submissive wife that's appealing? What do you find challenging about it? 
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Hi OP. DH here. I have been married twice. The ex was American and not submissive at all. It did not last. DW is from overseas. She grew up in Asia with a more traditional view of gender roles. She is highly accomplished and educated yet as a family we subscribe to more of the power dynamic that you describe. It has worked really well for both of us over the last 10 years. the one thing that does frustrate me sometimes she has a hard time articulating what she wants.

I just wanted to share this to make the point that not every relationship is 50/50.[/quote]

You are exactly like my ex. Ever since we got divorced he has dated a rotating cast of women from overseas because he can tell them what to do and he controls their visa.

He treats them like crap ...makes them do all the domestic chores and probably treats them fairly roughly in bed.

I feel like this submissive thing is just an excuse for men who either never grew up or are not willing to adjust to a normal relationship.
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