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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DONT give in- do intermittent fasting (it helps lower libido) and really work on yourself.  Just avoid being around him- if the situation makes you feel bad enough to post here then your husband wether purposefully or not is making you sad, You should avoid ppl who make you sad.

My husband is like this, honestly he also works in BigLAW and i'm very introverted so am needy but he also sucks at mitigating his insane hours. I realized that he makes me feel on edge and unhappy when he is around so I just avoid him which is really easy to do anyways and now i just think of myself as a single person who isn't dating right now and i feel so much better. I know i don't sound better b/c I'm revisiting this but in day to day life- i feel so much better.

Just hang in there- one day you won't care as much about this guy and when your kids are off to college you will be free to find someone who respects you. I think this comes down to respect more than love b/c if someone dignifies your needs and wants even if they aren't the same as their own- they'll make an effort, if they disrespect you than they'll be like "I don't have to make an effort b/c you are ridiculous". Someone who respects you doesn't think you are being ridiculous just b/c you are different from them. And we often love people we don't respect. [/quote]

You're idea is to just... not be around her husband? The husband she wants to feel loved by? This is why divorce rates are so high. Good lord. [/quote]

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