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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I gave a child up for adoption and that was the end of any relationship.  This was a child conceived in a brutal rape and abortion was not an option as I was under age 18 and parents did not believe in abortion.  Please do not do this.  You have been given a good life and [b]you have no right to mess up her life[/b].[/quote]

Mess up her life?  Wow.

I understand that you didn't ask to be raped, but this child didn't ask to be born either... but clearly you don't think about the feelings of anyone but yourself & most especially not the feelings of a sweet, innocent child who is not to blame for what happened you.  You only worry that your life might get "messed up".   I'm all warm and fuzzy inside from that sentiment.  :roll:

Oh & just an fyi...contrary to what YOU may think, this child actually has EVERY right in the world to contact their birth mother... it's actually called free will.

YOU on the other hand have no right to tell anyone else what they are & aren't allowed to do, once again... free will.
Although it's pretty hypocritical for you to try.[/quote]

I'm not the pp, but another adopted person who posted previously in this thread.  Your attitude is not healthy.  You have no right to tell someone how to feel about their situation.

This is precisely why all options should be open all pregnant women, without judgment.

I'm glad my mother had me and gave me up for adoption.  But as someone else said earlier, if she hadn't I'd be none the wiser. I trust that keeping me would have been some kind of misery for us both.  Not everyone is equipped to revisit bad situations and tough decisions they've had to make in their lives.  I know I'm not.[/quote]

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