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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Buy and read "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin De Becker. Do not under any circumstances respond to this man. Any attention you give him will just be the intermittant reinforcement that he needs. [/quote] +1 Even if some people on DCUM think De Becker is overrated, I still go through this risk assessment in this book in my head, still remind myself of the anecdotes he used on a regular basis. They represent quite a few types of situations people find themselves in. I think about the story of the girl sexually assaulted when a man in the downstairs of her complex insisted on helping her to her apt with her groceries. How the story says her instincts said to get away from him, but society told her she was supposed to be nice and accept the help. It sounds like you may also have a narcissist. Check out gaslighting and narcissistic emotional abuse to see if that rings true here.[/quote]
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