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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I have been accused of cheating on him the entire relationship (1.5 years) 
I have never given him reason to expect this to be true. In his mind I am a complete liar. We literally text all day long and I was showing him pictures of me at the park painting my toes. 
I just honestly don't understand how he goes from 0 to 10000 so fast. He made up a complete story in his mind and went with it. WTF[/quote]

Please accept the break up, block him and have no further contact.

I had a boyfriend like this - very jealous of me, fearing my infidelity, without any justification.  This kind of behaviour is a foem of grooming for abuse.  A woman who responds to these kinds of actions by accepting them, trying to show she is faithful, modifying her behaviour so as not to get him upset, etc.  - well that woman is demonstrating that she will not respond to abuse by walking away.  Thus the partner knows that she can be abused in the context of an ongoing relationship.

This kind of behaviour, i.e. monitoring and controlling the sexuality of the partner is a precirsor to emotional and physical abuse.

I wish someone had told me this.  It would have saved me about 10 years of my life and protected my from damage from emotional and physical abuse.[/quote]

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