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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well....since I wrote my last response he showed up at my son's school and created a huge scene.  He shouted obscenities at the person that was there to pick up my son (why wouldn't she be???).  I called the police because I did not want him taking DS in that state of  mind and they told me that there is nothing they can do since we have no custody arrangement.

I need to get a custody agreement in place ASAP.  Is there a way to get an emergency one even if it's temporary?[/quote]

Why didn't you offer him son first before getting someone else to pick him up?  He needs a clear visitation plan since you are withholding child from him.  Wouldn't you be angry if someone denied you your child?[/quote]

Where did you get I was withholding our child from him.  This whole thread is about the exact opposite, about HIM stopping to see his son.  He showed up at school out of the blue today.  Was I supposed to have some telephathic abilities and predict that he would show up today after three months of no contact.  Have you even read anything I said?[/quote]

You are setting up situations where dad is going to fail.  I have read what you said which is really one sided and you have no interest in what others have to say.  You clearly don't want dad in your child's life and are doing everything possible to make that happen.[/quote]

Are you the same person who keeps on replying over and over with defenses for the dad with absolutely zero knowledge of the situation?  You really have no idea what you are taking about.  If you really must know, I moved into the same building as my ex to make it as easy as possible for him to see his son.  So whatever issues you have with whatever ex you have, please leave it out of my situation.  I have done noting but facilitate this relationship for years.  But as others have pointed out, I can't make him want to be a father.  I don't know what today's episode was about but I will consult a lawyer tomorrow to formalize the custody arrangement.  He has not asked one single time to see his son in the last three months which I would not have denied him, but to show up like he did today is ridiculous.  What was he going to do? Take our child and not tell me?[/quote]

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