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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What qualifies as a low-earner, in your opinion?[/quote] 90k at 29. No family money or financial support from parents. 180K in grad school debt.[/quote] DH made 75k at age 29 when we married. He was about 25k in debt. There have been times when I wished he made more so that I could take career risks like quitting my big law firm job to stay home for a couple of years. I wouldn't change a thing though because he is a truly wonderful man. He is loving, faithful, supportive, and a fantastic father. I can say I love him even more now after 6 years of marriage. His earnings have gone up a bit to about 90k, but are unlikely to increase by much more. Take a hard look at your fiance. I wouldn't marry a kinda mean, not very helpful, so-so man who didn't make much. If he is a real keeper in every other area, however, then be careful before letting a good man go.[/quote]
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