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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like "stealthing" is what Ebola was to the US a few years ago. It never actually materialized. The media seized on the issue, and sensationalized it, and there was 24/7 coverage of it to attract viewers (as the media is wont to do),but realistically, how many actual cases of "Ebola" are there stateside?

Maybe that's a bad example. However, this kind of scare tactic, boogeyman news sells. This whole stealthing business is probably much ado about nothing. You think there are sleeper cells of men, who sit around plotting how they can stealth women? Like stealthing is so hot, and this underground practice that is like the new "ruffi" or something?

In sum, I think the media is promoting this to frighten women, and it's working, when in reality there is like one person on the US who has probably done this. Flame away, but you're the one with the paranoid, victim complex, not me. I seriously doubt dudes are just like "oh yeah, I can't wait to secretly pull the condom off. It's so novel."
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This has happened to me twice. I am divorced with a child and older childless men have twice done this to me. It has caused me to take a morning after pill both times. I am very careful now about tracking the condom. [/quote]

Why don't you do something to control your own fertility?[/quote]

The previous pp was doubting this is a thing. It is a thing. Even on birth control, as other pp's have stated, this poses risks to both parties -- one party not consenting to that risk.

My situation was that both men seemed to want to risk pregnancy on purpose. Both had expressed interest in having kids with me. Both times I told them absolutely not, that I wasn't interested in being serious. And after insisting on condoms, there were periods the condoms disappeared or in the dark, were purposefully not put on. [/quote]

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