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[quote=Anonymous]Yeah, figure out what you want. You clearly *don't* want her to see her grandchild whenever she wants--and that is a ridiculous notion anyway--so don't say things like that to a woman you don't even like, it sounds like! Stop trying to appear accommodating, seriously, it just conufuses matters. How often did you see her before this? Do you want to see her one on one now? Would you trust her to babysit ever? Think about what could be a routine, based on what kind of relationship you had before. Once a week brief visits would be generous if you didn't really get along before -- not a good idea if you have a bad relationship, btw, then you need DH to manage. But, yes, she does need to make an appointment to see her grandchild--as is completely normal and reasonable, so don't pretend otherwise![/quote]
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