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Reply to "Critique me: 28 yr old Af Am woman who wants marriage"
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[quote=Anonymous]My only piece of advice is to keep an open mind. It's fine that you have an idea of the type of man you are looking for, but maybe give someone a chance who initially doesn't check all of those boxes. Also, don't write someone off if the first date wasn't all fireworks and butterflies. Obviously there has to be some level of attraction or chemistry, but I think many women have big expectations of first dates and aren't willing to see where things go if it's not perfect. I've been married for 13 years. If you would've asked me 13 years ago if my DH was the type of man I thought I'd end up with, I would've said no. Yet I agreed to go on a date with him. Neither one of us thought our first date was great, but for whatever reason, we agreed to see each other again. I wasn't necessarily looking for a relationship and neither was he, but both of us figured we'd give it another shot. We laugh about it now, but it's crazy to think about how close we came to parting ways all those years ago after that first date.[/quote]
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