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[quote=Anonymous]When you find someone you "click" with, none of the dating rules matter. I'm not saying I believe in soulmates, or that "the one" is out there. But throughout life, you will meet people who just feel right, who feel like members of your tribe, people who get you and with whom conversation and interaction feels right and natural. When that happens in a romantic context, you shouldn't need to follow a set of rigid rules and feel like you're running a gauntlet to avoid dating pitfalls. I am married to a wonderful guy. I broke just about every rule in the book, including sleeping with him on the first date. I'm not saying it was a good idea - just that relationships and chemistry are intangible, and there is no "path" to finding love. Maximize your chances by meeting a lot of people, being social, and hanging out in places where you're likely to meet single men. Don't discount keeping your female social circle strong - the more people you connect with, the more people you'll meet at parties, etc. [/quote]
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