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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Whether you want to stay with your DH or not, I totally disagree with your desire to not make DH look like a piece of crap to your DS.  DS needs to understand that his dad did something that is not OK in any shape or form!  Otherwise, you will have implicitly approved of DH's actions in your DS's eyes and he will have an extremely messed up idea of marriage. Maybe your life is easier now staying in place and doing whatever your DH asks, but please think of your kids' long term development as people.[/quote]

I agree with you that dad did something that's not remotely OK.  I think there's a difference between "daddy made a huge mistake" and "daddy is a piece of shit".  People are not perfect, they make mistakes, sometimes huge ones. DH is a good father and I do not want to do anything to poison his relationship with the kids. I don't see how that would be good for them at all.  I guess I'm looking for the right balance of "huge mistake" vs. "piece of shit" down the road. [/quote]

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