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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ADHD 10 year old son is exactly the same, does yours have anxiety as well?

Our therapist told us due to his ADHD & anxiety this caused him to have separation anxiety all of his life (which he has, although it's gotten a little better).
The separation anxiety / anxiety wakes him & causes the moving to our bed.[/quote]

OP here.  Yes, our son has anxiety, as well.  He's not currently medicated for it, but we're keeping an eye on it.  His bed in his room is small and not that most comfortable, so I just ordered him a queen size bed that will be delivered this weekend.  I'm hoping the more comfortable bed will help and that it will make laying down with him (if needed) more comfortable.

We live in an old house and we don't even have a lock on our door.  I would never lock him out, because I think that would be terrifying for him.

Thanks again for all of the advice.  I'm hoping the new bed will help a bit.  If not, we may try the cot option.  [/quote]

I'm the poster you quoted & that cot posted above is fabulous (and so cheap at $22) we have one too!

I'm glad to hear that you've ordered a new bed, hopefully "too much space" in the bed won't be scary for him too.

You'll get through this mom, I know it doesn't seem like there is a light at the end of the tunnel but there will be. 
Hugs to you![/quote]

OP here.  Thank you so much!  This really helps.  It's tough to talk about because some people look at me like I'm crazy when I say that our 10 year old still crawls in our bed.  Again, I really appreciate the helpful (and hopeful!) advice.[/quote]

You're definitely NOT alone, mom!

Nobody ever puts this stuff on Facebook or talks about it at the PTA meetings, because there's this thing about having to appear like your life is perfect...It's SO prominent down here especially.

I'm originally from NY & I find when a woman down here wants to judge another woman harshest, she goes after her parenting skills.

Like I said, I'm glad you got him the new bed, but the cot is so affordable (and comfortable actually) it may be a good option in case of emergency. :)[/quote]

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