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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Welp in my house we don't have anything g to hide. He can rummage through my purse all he wants. What's he going to find, tampons? OOOOOOOOHHHHHH!! Just another thing for OP to complain about. Not putting your card back? Sure, annoying. But stop making this some huge issue. It makes you sound like an undesirable nag. [/quote]

PP, I hope you remember this post when you are stuck somewhere and can't find your credit card and have no cash and they won't take a check or you have no checkbook. Maybe you'll remember it as you realize you're at the only gas station for miles around, the tank is empty, and your card isn't there and you have no cash. Maybe you'll be standing at the checkout with a cart full of groceries and a line behind you and you realize your spouse has your credit card and you have $5.00 in your pocket. Enjoy the sensation.

This isn't just an annoyance. OP goes out to do things like buy groceries for her entire family and discovers she can't pay. She gets to the doctor's office and doesn't have a required document and has to bail on an appointment (and many doctor's offices now will charge you a fee for the visit anyway if you have to walk away like that). Her husband is not acting like a functional, thinking member of the whole family; he's only thinking of himself, in that one moment when he wants her card or cash. You seem to think OP is trying to hide something from him. That is not at all what she said. Read the post.

As for those who are sure OP is a troll because of the reference to the passport for ID at the doctor's office -- you don't know her situation or that doctor's practices. You just want to shout "troll" at someone. My friend has to take her kid to specialists and some of them want to see some kind of ID for her child, not just for her as the parent. It does happen.

OP, why is there one credit card in the family? We have one account but two cards, one for each of us. If it's a matter of his having a card of his own but mislaying his wallet, tough. I might get a keychain wallet and then have a place where you hide your keys/wallet every time you enter the house; don't put them in your purse but someplace you know that he won't go. (I would never advocate leaving a credit card in the car, ever. That's asking for it to get stolen.) Meanwhile--OP, I'd talk to him about it again, and list every time you've needed something that wasn't there because he had taken it. And he absolutely should take your child to that doctor appointment.[/quote]

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