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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The behavior is probably mostly forgotten, but your absence will refresh it in peoples minds.  If they see that you've forgiven him and moved on, they're more likely to do the same.  [/quote]

Doing worry about what others think of you, they don't pay your mortgage, right?  
They're not there for the day to day. 
You see them what? one or two times a year?  
They mean nothing.

Please don't be like other posters on this board who live their lives worrying about what other people think of them.  That's wasted time & SO much wasted energy... allowing it only gives them power over you & your emotions.

[b]Never give up your power, especially to those who virtually mean nothing to you[/b].[/quote]

Amen, I agree with both posters quoted here.[/quote]

OP here: Thanks everyone.  I do care what people think of me, but I need to learn not to. I really like the bolded statement above and I need to remember it. 
During this experience, I also realized I don't have a friend whom I can tell this to without feeling judged and that's pretty sad. But that's another post.

I'm sorry, I can't give details. I will say that it wasn't cheating and did not involve grabbing someone's a$$.

I do work and we have kids so I could come up with the excuse, but it is something we have done every year so I will probably go. 
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