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[quote=Anonymous]It is a tragedy that she got sick so young, and it is also a rare blessing to get to cradle a loved one in love as they leave this life. Your son has a chance to purposefully show her love. He is old enough that to be of service to her and her family. Think of something she loves...a baked treat? A favorite thing? And see if he can make or bring her something. Maybe he'll want to write her a letter or pick some favorite photos of memories they've shared and things they've done together. Coach him through this. Death is natural and part of life. Maybe you need a counselor to help you through your own grief so you can help your son? Also, please try not to worry about whether either of you cry. Grief is a way of expressing love. Please let your son know that it is okay if his love and sadness look like crying. Try not to make him afraid of tears. [/quote]
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