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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for your replies. Typically some of that stuff could have waited but the birthday calls could not and the decluttering/cleaning/laundry load had to be done to prepare for the cleaners coming today. No those things are not required on any given day during the week but the other stuff is. I did send him a sexy text during the day.

I think my larger point is we could have split those tasks, and would've have ended up having sec and going to bed sooner. As to the communicating, I have brought this up with him so many times. We've been together 13 years, married almost 8, and it is our number one discussion/argument/fight.

I'm disappointed because he always says he'll do better, and he may for a little bit - engage the kids while I'm making their dinner, take the trash out without me asking - but then he falls back into his habits of being concerned with his personal needs and not the household/family needs.

He works a lot - Big Law - but it's slowed down some recently and I think his issue is he thinks that since he works so much, when he's not working his first priority should be relaxing (tv, exercise, going to sleep early).

I'm just so tired of bringing up the same problem over and over. And he (probably) wonders why we can't make sex a priority. [/quote]

Again, no one is a mind reader. Simply say, "I am doing the dishes, can you do the laundry right now?" [/quote]

This. We made a point before kids to do chores together. We didn't have a situation where one is relaxing and one is doing chores. Granted sometimes dh is working from home in the evening and I'm doing chores but that's rare and even with that I never take out the trash or recycling when he's in town. [/quote]

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